It is said that in the late Ming and early Qing, Dong called Atsuyuki do people become a high official in the capital. Time, said a letter from the family home due to have taken place in disputes with their neighbors, it is necessary to him to speak. Atsuyuki to home Dong wrote a poem: \"take along thousands of miles only for the wall, I can not help but laugh. Hui, I just end your neighbors, be it three feet to allow the wall?\" Was very ashamed to see their families, according to him take the initiative to give up places three feet. Neighbors by education, but also yield a local three feet wide, so the space between two walls of a six-foot-wide alley. Later, people took this alley called \"six-foot-Lane.\"
让墙三尺又何妨
相传在明末清初，有个叫董笃行的人在京城做了大官。一次，家人来信说，家里因砌墙与邻居发生了争执，要他出面说话。董笃行给家里写了一首诗：“千里捎书只为墙，不禁使我笑断肠。你仁我义结近邻，让墙三尺又何妨？”家人看后很惭愧，照他的话主动让出三尺地方。邻居也深受教育，也退让出三尺宽的地方，于是两墙间就空出一条六尺宽的胡同。后来，人们就把这条胡同叫做“六尺巷”。
In the face of a string
Ren Bishi was the first generation of party and state leaders, as a result of weak and bitter, was admitted to a sanitarium. Every morning, every bodyguard to accompany him to walk near the Jingshan Park. One day they came to the park to the west, guards found a small door, thinking: from here into the park can take a lot of small roads, the old term of office until poor health, also can not take care of you? Said: \"Let\'s get it from here!\" Ren Bishi looked, I saw a door , ropes hanging from a hardware card that read \"stop visitors.\" Any old shook his head, struggling to drag the pace, walking towards the main entrance ... ...
(Live in many of these people\'s behavior norms \"string.\" Some are tangible, some intangible life that they let us civilized, and orderly ... ... we do not look down on this kind of \"string.\" Drop of water that can reflected the sun\'s shining. a trivial matter, we can see that a person\'s character.)
在一根细绳面前
任弼时是党和国家第一代领导人，由于身体虚弱，腿脚不便，住进了休养所。每天清晨，警卫员都要陪他去附近的景山公园散步。一天，他们来到公园西边，警卫员发现了一扇小门，心想：从这里进公园能少走好多路，任才老身体不好，还不能照顾一下？就说：“咱们从这里进去吧！”任弼时看了看，只见门上拴着一根细绳，绳上挂着一张硬纸牌，上面写着“游人止步”。任老摇摇头，吃力地拖着脚步，朝正门走去……
( 生活中有许多这样规范人们行为的“细绳”。有些是有形的，有些是无形的它们让我们的生活文明、有序……我们不要小看这样的“细绳”。一滴水，能映出太阳的光辉。一件小事，足以看出一个人的品格。)
Nails
A little boy, his bad temper for their great cause of frustration. One day, for that matter, he also directed at my mother screaming. Mothers find it very sad, very sorry little boy. Since then, his father told him one way: whenever he was angry when fixing a piece of wood on a nail. This is a good way to end a nail when a nail, the boy felt that his own peace of mind more. Not long after, a wooden board filled with nails nails. On that day, his father called him the little boy and let him on the boards pull out all the nails. Out after touching the wooden planks on father\'s numerous injuries, said: \"See, this is the traces left by a nail. To the board of course, very easy to nail, but you stay here but the scars will never be disappeared. \"The little boy hung his head in shame. (Did you know? When you throw a tantrum when people is in their hearts to others nails sub-ah!)
钉子
有一个小男孩，他为自己的坏脾气感到非常苦恼。有一天，为了一点小事，他又冲着妈妈大喊大叫。妈妈觉得很伤心，小男孩也很后悔。从那以后，爸爸告诉他一个办法：每当他感到生气时，就往一块木板上钉上一个钉子。这可是一个好办法，每当钉完一个钉子，男孩就觉得自己的心情平静多了。没过多久，木板上钉满了钉子。那天，爸爸把小男孩叫到跟前，让他把木板上的钉子全部拔出来。拔完后，爸爸抚摸着木板上的累累伤痕，说：“看，这是钉子留下的痕迹。往木板上钉子当然很容易，可是，你留在这儿的伤痕却再也不会消失了。”小男孩羞愧地低下了头。（你知道吗？当你对人发脾气的时候，就是在往别人心里钉钉子啊！）
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