People in my entire life, has a lot of things: family ties, friendship, love, health, career, family ... ... we have more and more, but we seem less and less happy.
As a child, we have parental care, the care of relatives, the teacher\'s teaching, but they\'re not so happy. The reason was that they felt the rules by the fetters of an adult life skills. Want to see football, the parents went so far as unceremoniously turn off the TV; and heterosexual students to the slightest contact with your eyes wide open as panic-like the teacher; excessive burden on academic confused people exhausted, sleep less secure, Playing unhappy , learn powerless. Say that young do not know real depression, young age had already suffered a troubled life, looking forward to his growing up quickly.
When we can in fact grow up what? Increased competitive pressures, life unhappy rushing toward us. Has a wife, but found that living with you and your loved ones is not; have a family, but feel that there are old and small, under a heavy responsibility, for their families hard; have a career, but a world of possibilities among colleagues The jealousy, infighting, power struggles among the leadership, sycophant. As the elderly, life endured sufferings to the children was raised, and the results only for others, to foster a husband or a wife, children end up married, living from his home, only a married couple Shadow hand in hand, had each other. Too many human vicissitudes, inconstancy of human relationships, too many disappointments and failures, disappointments and pain, sedimentation mind, ending up depressed worried. Feel like splashing into the water to paddle, a moment\'s inattention on the cut off, and I feel like a fragile glass, a little carelessness will break. Tea is not thinking, rice is not fragrant, sleep does not sleep. Q-jun can have how many unhappy, looking like a Spring River Flows East ... ...
This world, this life has its ugly side, but also has its bright side. Scenery all, enjoyable everywhere. Wise delight in the water, the benevolent Leshan. Rain rain of fun, and sunny with clear of the Miao. Jump pecking birds, cats and dogs eat three square meals sleep, which read that as not a cause for joy? The key is your attitude toward life. You can not change the environment, it is necessary to adapt to the environment; you can not change other people, it is necessary to change his; you can not change things, things will change attitudes; you can not upward comparison, you downward comparison. Fails, put the failure of the will of his own spirit as hone valuable asset; sick, you should be happy your still alive; poverty, you also have relatives; lonely, you got your own share of only the most good time ... ...
A bad mood, not only affects their health, restrict their ability to influence others, and mood, bringing to life a lot of regrets. After thinking, life is short, why confused that they are not happy, leaving everyone unhappy? Aristotle said that the essence of life is the pursuit of happiness. You have a good mood, they have other people to experience the beautiful life would not fall. A good mood allows you to generate upward force, so that you are filled with energy and vibrant, so that you turn hostility into friendship, of health, disease, help you acquire knowledge, cross-knot good friends, and create a harmonious, successful career. To have good intentions to spend a good reward, only you have a good mood, will enjoy life less than other people to enjoy a good scenery.
Not live long, only the rich live. Only happy happy life, is the richest high-quality life. All things from another angle to think that you will be pleasantly surprised to discover that you have and happiness are accompanied by feelings of a lifetime with Hello.
人这一辈子,拥有很多东西:亲情,友情,爱情,健康,事业,家庭……我们拥有的是越来越多了，可我们的快乐似乎越来越少了。
孩提时代，我们拥有父母的关爱，亲人的呵护，老师的教诲，但孩子们并不因此感到快乐。究其原因，是他们觉得受到了成年人的处世规则的羁绊。想看足球，父母竟毫不客气地关掉电视机；和异性同学稍一接触，老师就瞪大眼睛作惊恐状；过多的学业负担弄得人筋疲力尽，睡得不安稳，玩得不开心，学得力不从心。都说少年不识愁滋味，小小年纪就已经饱尝生活的烦恼，期盼自己快点长大。
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可事实上等我们长大了又怎样呢？更多的竞争压力，人生不如意扑面而来。拥有妻子，却发现和你生活在一起的并不是你的至爱；拥有了家庭，却感到上有老下有小的责任重大，养家糊口的艰辛；拥有了事业，却看尽了同事之间的嫉妒猜疑，勾心斗角，领导之间的争权夺利，溜须拍马。作为老人，一生含辛茹苦地把儿女养大，其结果只是为别人培养一个丈夫或者妻子，到头来儿女成家立业，居住他乡，只有老两口形影相随，相依为命。太多的人间沧桑，世态炎凉，太多的挫折与失败，失望与痛苦，沉积心中，郁郁寡欢，忧心忡忡。心情就像击水的船桨，一不留神，就断了，心情就像易碎的玻璃，稍不注意就碎了。茶不思，饭不香，睡不眠。问君能有几多愁，恰似一江春水向东流……
这个世界，这个人生，有其丑恶的一面，也有其光明的一面。良辰美景，赏心乐事，随处可见。智者乐水，仁者乐山。雨有雨的趣，晴有晴的妙。小鸟跳跃啄食，猫狗饱食酣睡，哪一样不令人看了觉得快乐？关键是你对生活的态度。你不能改变环境，就要适应环境；你不能改变他人，就要改变自己；你不能改变事情，就要改变对事情的态度；你不能向上比较，你就向下比较。失败了，就把失败当作磨练自己精神意志的宝贵财富；生病时，你应该高兴自己还依然活着；贫穷时，你还拥有亲人；孤独时，你获得了只属于你自己的那份最佳时空……
不好的心情，不仅影响自己的健康，限制自己的能力，而且影响他人情绪，给生活带来了许多遗憾。思前想后，人生苦短，干吗弄得自己不快乐，闹得大家不开心？亚里斯多德说，生命的本质在于追求快乐。你拥有了好心情，就拥有了别人体验不倒的靓丽人生。好心情可以使你产生向上的力量，使你精神焕发，生气勃勃，使你化干戈为玉帛，化疾病为健康，帮你获得知识，交结益友，缔造和谐，成就事业。好花要有好心赏，只有你拥有好心情，才会欣赏到别人欣赏不到的人生好风景。
不在活得长久，只在活得富有。只有开心快乐的人生，才是高质量最富有的人生。凡事换个角度来想,你会惊喜地发现,你已经与快乐相伴，一生伴你好心情。