Marriage
very particular about the old customs, young men and women generally do not have autonomy. Marriage is generally around 17 years of age, and some even earlier, many marriage procedures.
After the liberation to the \"cultural revolution\" before the old customs gradually abandoned, especially in countries to develop \"new marriage\", the marriage are protected by law, marriage and independent young men and women, parents should not interfere. Young men and women are free to love, can also be introduced awareness. The two sides get along after a period of time, such as like-minded, that is engaged to \"small set\", not Wait until the legal age, holding a letter of introduction to local government for registration of marriage, obtain a marriage certificate, wedding generous general simple, entertained friends and relatives came to congratulate, a small number of young people to do simple marriage, to participate in the collective wedding, travel to get married, marriage only scattered and more happy sweet.
Housing
Building people, we must look at the days, select auspicious foundation, columns, beams, security door into the house. On the beam on that day, the main house catering to home, inviting friends, neighbors and eat on the beam liquor. Most people take advantage of the upper beam of the human adductor machine. Father-in-law or female Mei-li of the thickest, if one building, the other side need to learn glass plaque, Liang Xi tent flowers, pudding steamed bread, firecrackers, candles, fireworks, Doo-Hong, pig, rooster, coupled with the TV, such as carp as a gift. Other relatives and friends in peacetime relationships between neighbors, according to the thickness on the books.
On the beam before the masters of hand-washing and burning incense, and bowed to worship. Paste in the central room in the beam, \"fu\" characters, in the other column on red paper couplets were pasted. Good beam after the beam of wood bricklayer will be prepared baskets of steamed bread pudding thrown down, the following people on loot, that grabbed the glory, not scramble to grab the hands of the people to away. At the same time, large firecrackers, and it buzzes.
birthday
Old, children have \"a hundred open\" (that is, born 100 days), \"off week\" (that is, one year old), to coddle children, grandmother to send silver necklace, silver lock. Children have been old, 20 young people over the three-year-old, adults over 40 years old, 50-year-old relatives and friends have donated clothing, and footwear habits, maternal grandmother was brought noodles \"fasting Buddha.\" Elderly people 60 years old, up to a hundred, his daughter sent peach, friends and relatives donated , said, \"hanging scroll Shou\", and some clothing .
Now, the first birthday of a child to do, apart from the ceremony were a pair of shoes to send a pair of socks, said to be \"shoe Niangniang socks, to live to 88.\" In general the elderly to live to 60 years old, when a big birthday celebration, his daughter outside the home in addition to steaming peach also bought a full set of clothes. Also invited to spend a hundred sons and daughters trumpeter ostentation, or rent movies, video to a birthday.
Birthday the day before the evening fireworks firecrackers ritual, said \"warm life.\" ago, \"Shouxing\" sit together, the life table filled steamed bread pudding Shouson two tables, a candle bucket Mantang Shenghui Shannon points. , the younger generation in order to \"Shouxing\" kow-tow, but also to the trumpeter, cooks hi free money, ranging from its number. after Airbus started to eat \"Shouson warm wine.\" To do more than the general 80-year-old birthday, visitors can peach, Shouson bowl. The past to celebrate the birthday, but well-off house guests surplus door ceremony. Now, with the people of the continuous improvement of material life, people generally celebrate the birthday of the scene, more than the past, the local well-off tenants.
嫁娶
旧时婚俗很讲究门当户对，男女青年一般没有自主权。婚期一般为十七周岁左右，有的甚至更早，嫁娶程序繁多。
解放后至“文化大革命”前，旧时婚俗逐渐废弃，特别是国家制定《新婚姻法》后，婚姻受到法律保护，青年男女婚姻自主，父母不得干涉。青年男女可以自由恋爱，也可以经人介绍认识。双方经过一段时间相处，如志趣相投，即订婚“下小订”，无须“合婚”。等到法定年龄，持介绍信到当地政府办理结婚登记手续，领取结婚证书，婚礼一般朴素大方，宴请前来祝贺的亲戚好友，有少数青年婚事简办，参加集体婚礼，进行旅游结婚，婚后只散些喜糖。
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建房
建房人家，先要看日子，选择吉日打基础、立柱、上梁、安大门、进宅。上梁这天，主家要置酒席，邀请亲友、邻居来吃上梁酒。多数人家趁上梁之机大收人情。岳父或女媚的礼最厚，如有一方建房，另一方需要习玻璃匾、梁帏喜花、糕馒、鞭炮、蜡烛、礼花、斗香、猪头、公鸡、鲤鱼再加电视机等作为贺礼。其他亲友邻居根据平时人情交往的厚薄上帐薄。
上梁前，主人洗手烧香，磕头敬神。在堂屋中梁上贴上“福”字，在其他梁柱上分别贴上红纸对联。梁上好后，在梁上的木瓦工将事先准备好的一篮一篮的糕馒往下抛，下面的人就哄抢，抢到的以为荣耀，抢不到的到抢到的人手中去夺。在此同时，大放鞭炮，热闹非凡。
生日寿庆
旧时，小孩过“百露”（即生养一百天），“过周”（即一周岁），娇惯的孩子，外婆要送银项圈、银锁。儿童过十岁，青年人过二十、三十岁，成年人过四十岁、五十岁亲友有赠送衣料、鞋袜的习惯，外公外婆则带来面条“斋佛”。老年人过六十岁、直至一百岁，女儿要送寿桃，亲友赠送被面，曰“寿幛”，有的还送衣料。
现在，小孩做第一个生日，除了礼份，姑母加送一双鞋，姨娘送一双袜，说是“娘娘鞋姨娘袜，活到八十八”。一般老年人活到六十岁，生日时要大加庆祝，女儿家除了蒸寿桃外还要买全套衣服。儿女还要花上百元请来吹鼓手大吹大擂，或租放电影、录相来祝寿。
生日的前一天晚上，放鞭炮礼花祭神，曰“暖寿”。拜寿前，“寿星”端坐堂中，寿糕寿馒摆满一桌两桌，蜡烛斗香点得满堂生辉。拜寿时，晚辈依次向“寿星”叩头，还须向吹鼓手、厨师赠送喜钱，其数目多少不等。拜寿完毕，来客车开始吃“暖寿酒”。一般做八十岁以上生日，来客可得到寿桃、寿碗。过去庆祝寿辰，只是富裕之家宾客盈门，仪式隆重。现在随着人民物质生活的不断改善，一般人家庆祝寿辰的场面，超过过去本地的富户。