需要有呵护父母的心

Met on the way to go to work no more than friends Huang teachers, all the way peer chat unconsciously said: You recently had a little fat. Out of a middle-aged women in the most sensitive, but it seems that teachers do not care about Wong, said: " stay around in winter father so devoted to food I like to eat every day so, no reason not fat." I sigh, said: "irrespective of how long that in the eyes of when children are watching." Huang teachers already know the age of Destiny, is the eight-year person. Huang teachers with emotion: "The home for many years and return home, or enjoy the doting father I used to evening Mr. and always to breakfast at the table only to get up." Far more than you then each of us children to do in the home are not true? Then she said: "I grew stubborn temper, and contradict their parents, but now, I sometimes look at my children's attitude to me, did not realize, and not willful speak again, always modest, it is mildly , it is slow, reluctant to re-say so, for fear that the hearts of hurt. "

  yes ah! realized that raising a child.

  themselves have children, to know their parents love their heart and know the hearts of parents to care.

  before, every time I go home, like many parents always brought something to eat, come back, but parents do not want to take away the things I am going to think that parents should be left to eat. I see things one by one into the bag out, get angry father said: "your children who is not obedient." Until my son on a boarding high school, never left home Love is the son, and each is always reluctantly, in order to balance his psychology, I would give him to many of his favorite snacks. Once they leave, the mother and son for a dispute with one sentence, angry son, did not take me to the snack food he was prepared to go to school, and looked at this package son favorite food, I suddenly understood the feelings of his father.

  usual, we still feel that enough money to parents, good parents, good wear look at filial piety is the best heart, How I do not know, parents also need to understand the heart, the need for empathy need to carefully care. As the saying goes: Poor Parents. A "poor" Road to make the world sad taste of the complexity of the number of parents, love their parents, it is necessary to understand the hearts of parents, poor parents, care of parents. Only the care of a parent to do all that filial piety is the real.

上班路上遇见多日不见的好友黄老师,一路同行聊天,不自觉说道:你近来有点胖了。冒出了一句中年女性最敏感的话,但黄老师似乎不在乎,说:“寒假里呆在爹娘身边,老爹老娘专门做我喜欢吃的饭菜,天天如此,岂有不胖之理。”我感叹说:“人不论长到多大,在爹娘的眼里都当孩子看”。黄老师已是知天命的年纪,爹娘已是八旬之人。黄老师也感慨道:“离家许多年了,回到家里,还是享受老爹老娘的溺爱。我和先生习惯晚睡晚起,总是爹娘把早饭摆在桌子上才起床。”何止你们呢,我们每个做儿女的,在爹娘的家里不都是如此吗?接下来她说:“我自小脾气犟,好顶撞父母,但现在,我看我的孩子有时对我说话的态度,才意识到,和爹娘说话再不可任性,总是很温和、很婉转、很慢,舍不得说一句重话,唯恐伤着爹娘的心。”

是啊!养儿方知父母恩。

自己有了孩子,才知道父母爱自己的心,也才知道去呵护父母的心。

之前,我每次回老家,总是带去许多父母喜欢吃的东西,回来时,却不愿带走父母给我准备的东西,觉得应该留给父母吃。看到我把装进包里的东西一一拿出,父亲曾气恼地说:“你这个孩子,真气人,一点也不听话。”等到我的儿子上了寄宿高中,从未离开过家的儿子非常恋家,每次总是恋恋不舍,为了平衡他的心理,我便给他带上许多他爱吃的零食。有一次临走时,母子俩为一句话争执起来,儿子生气,没有带我给他准备的零食上学去了,望着这包儿子爱吃的食物,我猛然理解了父亲的心情。

平时,我们总觉得给父母足够的钱花,给父母好吃的、好穿的,常回家看看,就是尽了孝顺心,岂不知,父母心也同样需要理解,需要换位思考,需要细心呵护。俗话说:可怜天下父母心。一个“可怜”道尽人间父母多少复杂心酸滋味,爱父母,就要理解父母的心,可怜父母的心,呵护父母的心。只有呵护了父母心去做的一切,才是真正的孝顺。

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