夫妻也需要感恩的理由

Birthday from his more than 20 days there, she is filled in turn, hoping to buy him a gift of a pleasant surprise.
He and she are the top students graduated from the prestigious universities. Just remember to marry soon, when the conditions are very poor family, he was hospitalized, she bought two after work the Federation gave him fresh fruit, fruit that has been touched by his hard work to build their own beautiful home, because there are Love, though very real hard time but feel very happy. In earlier years they have to go out to sea, running throughout the year in the market, worried about how to earn a decent living, calculate how to make money, but the day is like chewing gum in the mouth, sweet feeling has become increasingly short.
Now they are home more and more money, so they are less and less; whether it is his or her birthday, they send each other more and more high-end gifts, but they moved more and more light, they their own busy career. His achievements, his beauty like clouds around, noble and vulgar, and flirtatious, and pure, and deliberately tempted him, and really fell in love with him ... ... he could not on the minds of any one of them inviting. to her, she's around there is no lack of good men, powerful, gentle, warmth, and smart, and grovel in the ... ... She has always been that he is the favorite men in her life. Although living so that they change a lot, but in essence they are just the kind of person.
Heard with a very classic: a rich man loitering in the streets after the drunk, the police have to send him home, he said: "I have no home!" The police was surprised: "in front of your home is not it?" Rich said: "That's my house!"
Plain the reason why modern marriage, is because we have already lost something called Thanksgiving, for the cause, the family mental and physical exhaustion, lost in the busy self. A "thank you" or "sorry" has become so mean and inflexible. Today, our big houses, and families are smaller; facilities increased, the time is not good enough for us; our income and the rapid increase in the accumulation of wealth, happiness really is limited, but growing world of inner emptiness. I often think of life spent out of marriage is nothing to be afraid of passion, the terrible is that we do not feel moved by the expression of the will.

离他的生日还有20多天,她就满大街地转,希望能买到一件让他感到惊喜的礼物。

  他和她都是毕业于名牌大学的高材生。记得刚结婚不久,那时家庭条件很差,他因病住院,她下班后总会买两个新鲜的水果送给他,那些水果一直感动着他去努力拼搏,建设自己美好的家,因为有爱,虽然日子很清苦却觉得很幸福。早些年他俩先后下海,一年四季奔波在商场上,忧虑着如何营生,计算着如何赚钱,但日子就像嚼在嘴里的口香糖,甜蜜的感觉已经越来越淡。

  如今他们家里的钱越来越多,他们之间的话却越来越少;无论是他或是她的生日,他们相互送的礼品越来越高档,但彼此的感动却越来越淡,他们各自忙着自己的事业。以他的成就,他的周围美女如云,高贵的、低俗的、妖艳的、清纯的、刻意诱惑他的、真心爱上他的……他却无法对她们心中的任何一个动心。以她的才貌,她的周围也不乏优秀的男人,强悍的、温柔的、敦厚的、精明的、拜倒在石榴裙下的……她却一直认为他是她一生最爱的男人。虽然生活使他们改变了许多,但在骨子里他们都是那种纯粹的人。

  听到一段很经典的对白:有一位富翁酒醉后在街上游荡,警察要送他回家,他说:“我没有家!”警察很惊讶:“前面不就是你的家吗?”富翁说:“那是我的房子!”

  现代婚姻之所以平淡,是因为我们已经丢失了一种叫感恩的东西,为着事业、家庭身心疲惫,在忙碌中迷失自我。一句“谢谢”或“对不起”也变得那么吝啬和呆板。如今,我们的房子变大了,家庭却变小了;便利设施增加了,时间却不够用了;我们的收入及财富积累迅速增加,真正得到的快乐却有限,内心的世界反而日益空虚。我常想,生活消磨掉婚姻的激情并不可怕,可怕的是我们没有了表达感动心情的意愿。

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