To see adults in the school called \"teacher\", and their similar age called \"students\"; in the community, like to see the workers called \"masters\", and intellectuals like the name \"Sir\", the older women called \"Grandpa\" , young women known as \"Auntie\", the elderly man called the \"old man.\" If you know each other\'s professional career can be called names, such as \"X the doctor.\" Some students used to be said for the other \"comrade\", \"masters\", are sometimes not accepted by others, dialogue between the two sides can not increase the feeling of closeness.
Second, according to affiliation and environmental differences between the different call
By the general relationship between the corresponding age, job habits, such as name calling, such as Uncle Lee\" to show respect and courtesy; close more can be referred to a random order to form a close; relations are particularly good can叫小name, nickname or even a first, will not care about each other. If you want good students is squad leader, normally in two unscrupulous. In all seriousness if you suddenly one day to tell him to \"monitor\", but make him think you have any of his views.
Third, in accordance with the purpose of dialogue and the difference between interlocutors referred to the changes in mood
Great writer Balzac described by the well-known miser to see her daughter in Europe had a lover, Ni also deposited in possession of \"re gold box of dressing, \"is determined to yield to the EU also Ni, curry favor with her, and induced to coax her, \"he said his daughter was\" a small good! You\'re my daughter \", I would like to break open the box only dressing. When Ni is also strong in Europe, said \"Father, your gold Dao, I used the knife on the outcome of my life,\" he said with fear and cold: \"Do you dare to do in Europe also Ni\" in the face of her husband\'s shameless and greed, his wife \"halo has passed.\" \"Oh, children, we do not order a box you angry.\" He changed a mercy, sly face. Here, conversation with a call to replace the object several times, the dialogue is a specific purpose, and his mental activity based on changes. In ordinary life we often see that change as a result of the psychological phenomenon called.
Primary and secondary school students from an early age we should know how to address the proper use of reason, to develop the habit of proper use of titles, do not address the use of unhealthy, such as buddy abuse, \"\" chick, \"\" husband abuse \"and so on, at any time to call attention to learn some of the knowledge
一、根据对方身份、习惯不同而区别称
在学校看见大人叫“老师”，和自己年龄相仿的叫“同学”；在社会上，看到工人模样的叫“师傅”，知识分子模样的叫“先生”，年长的妇女叫“阿婆”，年轻的妇女叫“阿姨”，年长的男子叫“老伯伯”。如果知道对方的职业可以称其职业的名称，如“X医生”。有些同学习惯于一律称对方为“同志”、“师傅”，有时会不被别人接受，不能增加对话双方的亲近感。
二、根据亲疏关系和环境的不同区别称呼
关系一般的就该按相应的年龄、职务等习惯叫法称呼，如“王主任”、“李叔叔”，以表示尊重、礼貌；关系密切的可以称呼得随意些，以表亲密；关系特别好的，可以叫小名，甚至直呼绰号，对方都不会在意。假如你要好的同学是班长，平日里两人无所顾忌。一天你若突然一本正经地叫他“班长”，倒会使他以为你对他有什么意见了。
三、根据对话目的和对话者心情的变化区别称呼
大作家巴尔扎克笔下著名的吝啬鬼葛朗台，看到女儿欧也妮有一只恋人存放的藏有“两斤重”金子的梳妆匣，“决意向欧也妮屈服，巴结她，诱哄她”，他称女儿是“小乖乖!你真是我的女儿”，想撬开那只梳妆匣。当欧也妮坚决表示“父亲，你的刀把金子碰掉一点，我就用这刀结果我的性命”时，他惊恐而冷酷地说：“你敢吗欧也妮”面对丈夫的无耻和贪婪，葛朗台太太“晕过去了”。“噢，孩子，咱们别为了一只匣子生气啦。”他换了一副求饶、狡黠的嘴脸。这里，葛朗台对同一个谈话对象多次更换称呼，是以特定的对话目的和他心理活动的变化为依据的。我们在平时生活中，也经常看见到由于心理变化而变化称呼的现象。
我们小学生应该从小就懂得正确使用称呼的道理，养成正确使用称呼的习惯，切勿使用不健康的称呼，如哥们儿”、“小妞”、“爷们儿”等，随时注意学习一些有关称呼的知识
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