谈生活中的出众与出名

Well, is generally believed that in the smaller peer groups, or well within the scope. Known, was considered to be in the community or a region have a greater reputation. Many people would like to well-known, outstanding because more well-known scenery, but after the well-known risk than outstanding, well-known, the peer can do nothing about, only a halo of society. And are often outstanding jealousy, ridicule and even against the so-called "wood show in the forest, the wind will destroy them."
In fact, it is well-known start-up phase, there is no outstanding after the tempering, tempering, where well-known and frankly, after the glory? A friend set up enterprises, as enterprises, product quality, and service excellent, very popular in the market, not a few years in the industry leader. However, there are peers who framed him, there are similar companies secretly copied his products, to block the sales of his products. The day chatting with him, he said that no one wants to engage in big business, everyone would like to become famous in the community, but I am really afraid of something out of nothing colleagues.
This remark is true, but also strong enough. In fact, it may not be well prepared for the well-known conditions. A person with good work in the peer skills, there is the width of knowledge, has not been reflected in its well-known, it is because the need for well-known is an act of God, the need for luck. The times produce their heroes, and heroes are not outstanding qualities. The number of reputable hero, an instant fall. And there are more outstanding, and in their efforts to process, deepening the well-known background, but the end of the World Bank to outstanding.
A media friends, writing, good at writing, painting with happiness, the three technology sets a, scholars gathered in the media also uncommon. As a result, peer in, who has long been recognized as outstanding. Recently, a friend to the election Zhi Hao Jing, writing this on, comic map of the way, published a book of harmonic Yizhuang also "an official is not easy", let us see his skill. Such preparations, it was a speculation, is famous, and he was just more than contented. Meet a Yuet: not well known, Enron intended to reach the habitat Shun.
Is seen outstanding results, well-known Providence help you need. Outstanding efforts to refining skills, long learning, increased knowledge; and dream of fame, then be false, exaggerated, utilitarian.

出众,一般认为人在同行或较小群体范围内的出色。而出名,则被认为是在社会或一个区域内有较大的名声。不少人想出名,却怕出众,是因为出名更风光,而且出名后比出众风险小,出名后,同行无可奈何,社会只见光环。而出众则常遭嫉妒、讥讽乃至打击,所谓“木秀于林,风必摧之”。

其实,出众是出名的起始阶段,没有出众后的磨炼、摔打,哪有出名后的荣耀和坦然?有一位办企业的朋友,因为企业的产品质量好,服务优,在市场上很受欢迎,没几年就在同行业中处于领先地位。可是,便有同行人士对他进行诬陷,有同类企业暗中抄袭他的产品,阻断他产品的销路。那天与他闲聊,他说,谁都想把企业搞大,谁都想在社会上成名,但我真怕同行们的无中生有。

此言不虚,也足够坚强。实际上,出众也未必是为出名准备条件。一个人具有在同行中出色的技艺,有令人叹服的学问,却未见其出名,那是因为出名是需要天意,需要运气的。时势造英雄,而英雄本色却并非出众。有多少英雄名噪一时,瞬间陨落。而有更多的出众者,在努力过程中,不断加深着出名的底色,却终以出众行世。

有一媒体朋友,善解古文,精于写作,又喜画画,三技集一身,在文人集聚的媒体也鲜见。因此,在同行中,早已公认是出众者。最近,朋友以浩帙选精、古文今谈、漫画图之的手法,出版了亦庄亦谐之书《当官不容易》,让我们见到他的功力。这样的准备,有人一炒,是可名声大振的,而他只是自得而已。相见一悦:出众未见出名,可达顺意安然之境。

出众是谋事的结果,出名则需要天意相助。努力出众可以炼技艺、长学问、增知识;而梦想出名,则让人虚妄、浮夸、功利。

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