This afternoon, I arrived home, the son said to me: "Mom, I'm going to participate in the badminton training schools."
I answered: "Yes, support your mother."
Evasively son: "Mom, I want to buy a better quality of badminton, I used to buy their own pocket money, all right?"
This kid certainly know that I will not buy him because some time ago to buy a piece of badminton. I told him: "The original badminton can not it? Not be too wasted."
This kid said: "The teacher said to use better quality pictures, it is best to 'double happiness' of badminton."
In view of his own money to buy out the copies, I agree with him a little bit unreasonable demands. You can not, he would like to exercise more, only the yield. Son and shopping malls to pick his favorite badminton, the small guy, did not choose to buy the most expensive, but the selection of a moderate price badminton.
The more loving son, just to name a few can say. Painting as a child-loving, piano, playing chess, Scooter. On a primary school fell in love with table tennis, swimming, rope skipping, skating, playing basketball, now playing like a badminton. Each time a child may have different sports-loving, but it is not the same as expertise in the future will be like what the sport, it is not know. In fact, reflect on their children as long as there is enough love, get married do not have to become famous.
Throughout his son so much love, the only painting he is able to adhere to them, from kindergarten to the present interruption. Maybe it is because the territory whom can, can be stirred his heart Victory Bar. In fact, as parents, as long as he is a loving, and I will support him if he is not interested, I do not force him. For example, this semester, I want him to participate in Mathematical Olympiad, Austria and Britain, but he did not like it, not interested. This would allow him to participate in the tough, but he said he can not but respect the wishes and said if he is not interested, even if forced him to learn that he will not get good results.
Son of the message so that when my mother's shame. Yes, their education is dry, says it has to be respect for the child, child to a happy childhood. Why in this role as mother, I forgot it.
Respect for children, children of the opportunity to express their wishes, the children will grow up happy. Children in the hands of parents rather than flying, Chezhao not in the hands of parents to control children's line, they want to fly on the fly, they want Tingjiu Ting. Such children do not own the real, imagine they are happy to speak of it? As a parent, not to impose their will on the child's head, to a child's freedom of the sky and let him fly free, they may fly farther and higher.