职场上的同事们都希望能在办公室里获得重视，从而得到提升和加薪 . 但并不是一味的引人注重就可以获得重视和大家的尊敬，很多时候都要讲究原则 .
1. Know what you believe in and stick to it. Nothing loses other's respect quicker than inconsistency.
清楚并坚持自己的想法 . 左右摇摆会让你在别人心目中的形象大打折扣 .
2. Keep your distance. Be friendly but not over-familiar. Don't confide intimate details to your colleagues.
保持距离，友好却不要太亲近，不要向同事袒露太私人的生活细节 .
3. Keep your business to yourself. Don't share all your problems. Even if you resolve them you'll have left the impression that you're indecisive or unable to cope with pressure.
自己的事情自己做，不要事无巨细都向同事请教 . 因为即使你已经解决了问题，你还是会给人优柔寡断或无法面对压力的不良印象 .
4. Don't ask anyone to do anything you wouldn't do yourself.
连自己都不想做的事情就不要麻烦别人去做 .
5. Communicate-simply and often.
经常与同事进行简单的沟通 .
6. Keep your eyes on the objective.
一直盯住你的目标 .
7. Don't get drawn into colleagues' personal lives.
不要纠缠于同事的私人生活中 .
8. Keep cool. Don't respond instantly or say yes to everything.
保持冷静，对听到的任何事情不要马上表态 .
9. Keep your head. A calm presence is an invaluable asset.
保持理智，镇静是你工作制胜的法宝 .
10. Be good at your job. Know that you're good. Self-respect is the key. It'll show up in the way people deal with you.
做好你的工作，相信自己能胜任 . 自信是要害，这也会影响到人们对你的态度 .
11. Accept that you can't please all the people all the time-or even some of the people all of the time.
承认这个事实：你不能总是让所有的人满足，甚至是总让一部分人满足都很难 .